Bom this my hopeless boyfriend of 4years just broke up with me after using my salary to cook for him . When we first met he said he would never marry any woman who will not add any benefit to his life,so when we got serious he asked to use my money to be cooking while he takes care of other bills,for 4 whole years,
I believe life is all about negotiation it is really hard to say we are just doing something without compensation, you are either looking for satisfaction, fulfillment or an exchange either way things are done for a reason so let's not act like we don't know that.
I really do not need to tell us the origin of Amala just that it is a popular Yoruba delicacy enjoyed with various soups especially the one and only ewedu ati gbegiri. Amala is a meal I enjoy so much especially because I grew up in the western part of Nigeria. However, the question I began asking myself , is it healthy? let's look into it together.
A lot of women these day are looking for equality in marriage or in their relationships and this has been encouraged by women who are single or divorced teaching young women that this is the right way, so they come up with strange terminologies like feminist, woman on top etc. can't name them all. I believe this teaching is spun out of discontentment or bad experiences.
We know a lot of women prefer coffee to tea but to be honest the caffeine does us more harm than good, so why don't we just try and replace our morning routine with something more beneficial.